A Big Difference Between A Transsexual and A Transvestite

It seems in Thailand just like in the U.S. there is also 2 larger subtypes. In the western world one refers to this phenomenon as a shemale, transexual, or ladyboy. Katoeys are beautiful and sexy! kateoys have the grace and beauty of a woman along with the intense sex drive of a man When you look at a Katoey, you are mesmerized by the sexy asthetics of a woman but you are aroused by the aggresive nature of the man within. Sex with a kateoy is the most erotic, heart pounding experince you can can ever have.

The first are what in the U.S. are transvestites (TV), which are men just dressing up in drag for fun and perhaps enjoy fooling people and getting the shock reaction when the man finds out she is a he.

But the second group which it far larger at least in the U.S. is the true female, with the genetic defect which creates the terrible result of nature of being a women trapped in a male sexual body. This is the transsexual (TS) who isn't playing any games like the transvestite, but desperately want the sex change operation to align their gender and their physical sexuality.

Just like some gays, they sometimes go to extremes of acting out since they are treated as such oddities anyway in our culture they flaunt it just as some gays do. But for the vast majority, at least in the U.S., they are desperate for support and want to be treated as real people not as a genetic mistake.

BTW, in the womb we are all female to start. Based on genetics different hormones cause our sexual organs to develop either male or female. Men...look at the back of your penis. See the line? That is where your vagina would be if your penis developed as a female instead of male. We are all just a chromosome away from being the opposite sex and we all have the same internal sex structure that just develops differently. That is why for example, many women can ejaculate, just like men. The sexually plumbing has developed differently but it is all there male or female.

Regardless if one is a Katoey, gay, bi, or straight, Black, White, Indian, Asian, or Western, we are all most importantly the same human race, with the same emotional desires to love, play, be sexually fulfilled etc. To me what is the same is more important than looking at what is different.

If you are like me, an extreme heterosexual (didn't choose it that's how I was born), no one is forcing us to have sex which is icky to us (other men icky to me). But all deserve the same respect that we would want if we happened to be born a minority sexual orientation of with a cruel fate of a genetic error like the transsexual.

While I am very sympathetic with the TS, I have no such support of the TV who is just playing a game having fun deceiving people. I understand both types are common in Thailand as in most all of the world. But since some of the best in the world sex change surgery is available in Thailand, I suspect there are many TS's that in my view need support, not ridicule.

On the other hand...I'm not sure the true TS'x are in bars pretending to be girls.... Except that their gender is female and they seek male friendships and sensual interactions (even if not full sex) just like "real women" do who are lucky enough to be both female in gender and physical sexuality. I do not support them however in their deception. Yet how else are they going to find companionship from a heterosexual male that will have them knowing the truth. They clearly are not gay but truly female in emotional gender. A gay does not desperately want to have female breasts (just icky fat cells to them) etc.

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